What happens when someone tells us something over and over? Sometimes these words get down into our soul and we believe what they tell us.

It is a common idea that a new year means new goals. This is going to be the year that we change ourselves. This is going to be the year that we shape ourselves into a better being. 

We all know that feeling of being startled. Maybe your friend jumped out of a closet to scare you. Maybe you just ran away from a barking dog.

Have you ever experienced responding to someone in a snappy way without meaning to?

There it is, U. Well, not quite your “U”, since this is a generalized diagram, but hopefully it will serve as the base for visualization of your “U”.

Validating emotions can be a great tool in connecting with others and showing up in a way that makes ourselves and others feel good, but it can be tricky to do! Here are some steps that may help.

Have you ever wondered if the hard things that you experience in life are helpful? Or if they just happen, and beat you down?

Words have an incredible impact on our lives. Even just a few words can make or break a relationship. In the realm of love and relationships, there exists a unique love language known as words of affirmation. 

I find that the best way to check in not only with myself but with others as well is by simply showing forms of compassion.

Can you think of a time where you blew up at something or someone for no reason? Try to remember how you were feeling then. Were you truly upset at that situation or something else?

In a recent Hey, I’m Here Squad meeting, we dove into the concept that healing isn’t always straightforward- it can sometimes present a double-edged sword.

In our fast-paced, interconnected world, showing care to others is a crucial, often forgotten aspect. Whether it's lending a helping hand to a friend in need or practicing acts of kindness towards strangers, extending care can create a positive impact on individuals and society as a whole. 

In your most stressful moments, what do you do? Do you isolate yourself from others? Lash out? Or do you take a step back and take deep breaths?

What gives me energy? Each morning, I wake up still slightly tired from the night before. Full-time mom, full-time college student, and part-time employee, it can be exhausting, overwhelming, and even stressful managing it all sometimes.

We've all experienced moments in our lives when something or someone triggered a strong emotional reaction. It could have been a teacher reprimanding us or a daunting school to-do list. These triggers, sometimes called stressors, are actions or situations that can lead to a negative emotional response. In the context of mental health, triggers often refer to something that has triggered or worsened symptoms

A bowl of steaming hot dumplings is delicious, but must be savored carefully. I was reminded of that today during lunch: I arrived at my spot to find an appetizing bowl of large dumplings (in Mandarin, they’re called 饺子) waiting for me. I knew they were hot; I could see the steam rising from the bowl.

Do you ever feel like there’s a shark in the water? But at all times? That anxiety or stress that creeps up at inopportune times? Maybe you drop your plate on the ground and it sends a shockwave down your entire body.

Have you ever tried to talk to a teenager about how they feel, but it just ends up turning into an argument? This is a common scenario and one that can change!

Have you ever picked up your phone and started scrolling so you could ‘rest’ in between tasks? I frequently do this and one thing I can confidently say is that it is not the rest that I need.

I am no stranger to saying I can give myself a break, then spending hours on other tasks. With college admissions, advanced placement classes, numerous clubs, and a job, I hardly even get a chance to breathe. When I get stressed and overwhelmed, my first thought is that I hardly ever need to take a break.